Social Faux Pas And The Fake Fin Dommes

As we work to set up my newest website, we go through all of the normal channels that good marketers do. Lately, that requires being a part of social media.

It is almost embarrassing to be associated in some certain circles though. There are different classes to every single occupation or "role" in life.

There are barkeeps and there are sommeliers. There are plow horses and there are thoroughbreds. There are 2-bit hookers and there are high-class call girls.

It is necessary for me to be in touch with people at some level, but to the level that some girls take things these days, newcomers to findom - findomme activity probably wonder just how this works because most of the girls on social media are giving away their only ASSets for FREE - and then demanding tribute.

I don't mind saying that these girls are an embarrassment.

It's not because they are ugly. They are quite beautiful. It's not because they are lazy. They are putting forth effort - which is evident by their social postings. It's not because they don't have anything to offer. Everyone has something to offer.

They are an embarrassment because they are stupid. Stupidity is embarrassing. Stupid girls post everything out front hoping to catch a wandering eye with the full-pussy splayed on Twitter. They don't understand that THEY are providing the services without getting paid. Giving everything that you may have away for free without getting paid? That is the antithesis of being a real FinDom.

True FinDoms are worshipped because of restraint. There is a certain expected level of class, sophisication, control and discipline that comes with financial domination. Nothing is good enough. No one can tell you what to do or what to buy. No one has any control over your actions and they damn sure don't deserve to see anyone half-naked, much less fully naked and screwing 3 guys while another girls sucks toes. For FREE.

So, that is the source of embarrassment. It truly grates my nerves to have to occassionally post on Twitter among the girls who are play-acting and want to be me - but so obviously aren't. My hashtags have to reflect an area of interest but those hashtags also lump me in with postings from girls on a level of wanna-be's that make the street-walkers look classy.

That's why it occurred to me to use the hashtag #5starfindom. Yes - I'm the first one to use that on Twitter - so it's mine to claim but of course, anyone can use it. Eventually, it will be overrun by people that usually post on the current popular hashtag groups like #paypig and #walletrape.

Sure - I get it. Embarrassment is the name of the game. It's supposed to be embarrassing, humiliating, degrading. But those things are for YOU - not me.

I stay in 5-Star Hotels. Men buy me very expensive jewelry. My car is paid for. I'm about to sell the Harley I have and I will likely get a new one from tribute before it sells. But do I "beg"? That would be a "hell no". When certain people do meet me in person, I am the classy woman in the corner that every man sees and every woman wishes he didn't see. What I have is confidence. Girls trying to "learn" how to be a findomme will probably never make it. It's internal. It's a vibe. It's unattainable for most girls on the Internet - because they don't "get it".

I sure do.